What is in my life for me?

In this competitive environment, most people are surviving but rarely lives.
The truth is, most people forget the reason of living, while some are still searching for the purpose of life.

“Fate is in your hand.”
“You can’t change your fate, it is already set when you are born.”

These are the 2 contradict statements that we always heard off, but which one is true and which one do you believe in?

There are many times, that we are working hard to achieve something but we failed. Do you still keep trying and keep trying until you are successful or you think you can't be successful because this is fate?

“Success is the result of perfection, hard work, learning from failure, loyalty, and persistence." - Colin Powell

But how can we keep our momentum going and persist on achieving our goal despite all the challenges and failure?

The answer is “PASSION”

Passion and Interest are 2 different things that have lots of similarity. Sadly most people get confuse about these two.

Passion - a strong or extravagant fondness, enthusiasm, or desire for anything
Interest - something that concerns, involves, draws the attention of, or arouses the curiosity of a person

So, "What should I do in my life? How do I achieve something great? How should I define great? Can I achieve it?” Are these the questions you asked yourself? It is time to stop asking these kind of question, you won't know how to go to a place before you decide where to go, isn't it?

My question to you is, “What is your Passion?” Take your time & think again...

So, back to the question, “What is in my life for me?”

To be honest, this is a question that no one else can answer for you, because "YOU ARE THE ANSWER".

Dream of Poverty

It was 5 minutes away from midnight, I am packing all my stuff ready to leave my work place and going back home. My colleague who drove a car offer me a drop my car before he left.

“Hey bro, let me send you to your car, it is kinda late now you know?” said my colleague.

“Nah, it’s alright, my car is just nearby and this is not my first time leaving the office late night. I often leave office this late.” I rejected his offer and was thinking, “not much difference will it be, since I often left the office around 10-11pm. 

“

While climbing up the pedestrian, there is a stadium on my right-hand side, I see thousands of people just like zombie running towards me and was blocked by a tall fencing. They show their hand through the fencing asking for food and helps.

On my left instead, I saw a roll of food stalls that are always close are now open cooking and making food for these poor people, they aren’t rich man, they aren’t powerful people, but they cook for people who need food. Merely in front of me, food like buns and so on was thrown to the hungry people across the pedestrian.

I was so scared and do not know what can I do, I have no food nor money with me, the only thing I am doing is holding tight on my working material and laptop to my chest so that it will not be grab by any of the people. I do feel so selfish and helpless at that time.

After passing the pedestrian, I barely see lights down the street but I do see a bright light that guide the poor people to the stadium, telling them that is the place where food is. People coming out from the gate batch by batch heading to the stadium for food and they have no other place they can go without the light.

Is this what happen every night after midnight, where all the poor people are only allow to come out after midnight? And why didn’t I know about this at all and no one ever talk about it?

Walking down the street slowly I met my colleague again and this time I decided to let him to drop me to the nearest street where I park my car (I wonder why didn’t I ask him to drop me to my car directly) after saying thank you and I start walking towards my car without any streetlight. While walking, I heard someone riding with motorcycle following me and I do not feel good about it. He step down from the motorcycle and chasing me trying to rob me. After a short run, he failed to continue and I realise he is one of the poor that had not enough energy to even move forward.

The whole story sound ridiculous and was unrealistic, because it is a dream.

You never know maybe somewhere of the world this is happening, where the poor are only allowed to come out during midnight and the middle & rich doesn’t even know their existence. You never know how many people falling into the poor category every day. You never know many people are trying hard to help the poor even they themselves are barely survive.

I really appreciate everyone that appear I my life and I do know god sent you to me for purpose. Thank you god for giving me this dream, to remind me on my purpose of life. Thank you everyone so much in giving me so much opportunities, thank you for trusting me and I will never forget my dream.

I will & I must be an entrepreneur, create jobs and help those who wanted to get help, fight poverty. 

一个过程~ A Process ~

学不好，怎么做？
做不好，怎么教？
教不好，怎么领？

学，做，教，领~
是个过程~
而你，就是唯一决定这过程速度的人~！


You can't do without knowing how to learn,
You can't teach without knowing how to do,
You can't lead without knowing how to teach.

Learn, Do, Teach, Lead~
is a process~
and you are the only one who decide the speed~!

人生最漫长的旅行 – 成功

在现在的社会里，想成功的人非常多，但是真正成功的人又有几多呢？

您跟很多人一样很想成功，那么您知道成功需要经过的什么阶段吗？

知道的，很好，这个可以用来审核自己。如果不知道，没关系接下来的文章就会让你知道。

其实成功要经过的阶段是很旅行一样的，您懂得怎么去旅行，您就懂得达到成功的阶段。

以下是利用旅行做比喻，让你明白成功的阶段的文章。

1.     您喜欢旅行吗？

您喜欢成功吗？(如果是不喜欢，这篇文章您不需要读下去！)

2.     您决定要旅行吗？

您决定要成功吗？真的决定了吗？(您没决定要在人生中成功那么您也不需要继续往下读)

3.     您知道您要去的地方是哪里吗？

您知道您的梦想，您的目标是什么吗？如果不知道请您认真的去想您真正要的是什么，因为没有目的地，没有想去的地方，旅行就没意义了。

4.     您找到了地图了吗？

地图的用途就是为了只告诉您所有可以到达目的地的方式。成功也一样需要一张地图，上面有着您的梦想和可以达到您梦想的道路与方式。

5.     您在地图上选好了您要走的道路的吗？

到达成功，到达梦想是有很多方式的，您必须经过三四考虑后做出决定，选一条自己认为可以走的路。这条路也许比很多路长，没关系知道能到达您到去的地方就行了。

6.     您要用什么交通工具去您的目的地呢？

一双手和一颗脑袋是不足够的，真正要达到成功，您一定需要借助一些工具或平台，让您的潜能发挥，才能把您带到成功的下一段。有一点必须要注意的是选择交通工具是很重要的，您到去的地方越远，您就需要越好的交通工具；您要的达到的梦想越大，您需要的平台就越大！

7.     您有了驾驶这交通工具的技能了吗？

您学会了是用这工具的技能了吗？是用的技能全会因您的交通工具而改变，当然如果您想去的地方只有飞机能到达，那么您就要比别人更努力的学会驾飞机的技能。成功的平台越大，您就需要更大的努力去适应跟利用他来发挥您的潜能，到达梦想，成功。

以上的您都有了，可是为什么您还没成功呢？始终的原因就是因为您不肯离开您最舒服的家，您的舒适区。就像去旅行一样，您不肯离开您的家，那么您是不可能好你要去的地方的。您不肯离开自己的舒适区，不肯付出，不肯接受压力，不肯冒险，那么您怎么成功呢？还太什么要去达到梦想呢？

所谓: “在人生旅途中不敢冒險的人，絕不可能有豐碩的成果。”

您还记得第2个问题吗？您已经告诉自己您要成功，您真的要成功，那么为什么还有不肯离开舒适区的心态呢？

还有最重要的，就是坚持，试想想您现在要去旅行，您驾驶到一半，因为觉得远，累，而最后放弃了，那么您就再也不能到达您的目的地了。请一定要坚持，觉得远，觉得累是正常的，没关系的，休息一会，在重新出发，一定会有到达目的地的一天。更要记得的是千万别休息太久，成功是不会等您的，而您如果休息太久也会慢慢的回到自己的舒适区，那时您就需要重头再来了！

很多人就像您一样想成功，可是却想一步登天不肯经过一定的阶段与磨练，最后的结果就是失败，所以请一定要清楚自己现在的位子，从您现在的位子往成功出发，加油~！祝您成功~！，

3 stages to past through after crisis

When crisis hits, a person will go through a process with 3 stages.

1st is denial, where he cant accept the fact and feel bad on the situation with no way out.

2nd is resistant, where he still not find any way to solve the problem, but he start ti resist to the situation and become feeling-less.

3rd is acceptance, this is the stage that he really start to accept the fact, try to live a better life and with solution with the crisis or situation he facing.

Everyone have to go through this process, stronger people go through it faster. So stay strong and you will definitely past through it 1 day. But remember, you have to accept it at the end no matter what.

Good luck to all of you.


Inspired by: Soaring Higher by pat mesiti