3 stages to past through after crisis

When crisis hits, a person will go through a process with 3 stages.

1st is denial, where he cant accept the fact and feel bad on the situation with no way out.

2nd is resistant, where he still not find any way to solve the problem, but he start ti resist to the situation and become feeling-less.

3rd is acceptance, this is the stage that he really start to accept the fact, try to live a better life and with solution with the crisis or situation he facing.

Everyone have to go through this process, stronger people go through it faster. So stay strong and you will definitely past through it 1 day. But remember, you have to accept it at the end no matter what.

Good luck to all of you.


Inspired by: Soaring Higher by pat mesiti

Situations in Life are Like Seasons in A Year

Situations in life are like seasons in a year.

If you are in summer, enjoying the warm sunlight, having great moment, don forget to prepare for the coming winter.

If you are in winter where every where is dark and cold, don worry because summer will come after this.

Remember, time is your best friend in life. Always look at the future. Don just stand on current and wish things to become better. Make a step forward and plan for the coming seasons in your life.


Inspired by: Soaring Higher by pat mesiti

生命导师之前所说的一句话

刚刚，我脑海里冒出了我生命导师之前所说的一句话：

Andy， 我知道现在很多事你都不愿意做，不喜欢做，可是我所面对的你未来也需要面对。已经20多岁的你其实应该已经感觉到未来十年二十年的生活并不是想象中的那么 简单~其中更包括了两样只有上没有下的费用。一，是孩子的教育费；二，是父母未来的医药费。也许你会觉得这是以后的事以后再打算，可是当这些事来到的时候 我已经做好准备了，那你呢？难道到了那个时候，你到外面去向人求助，求人帮你是你愿意，自愿做的事吗？

我听了以后，我深思了很久很久~真的，我的导师说得对，就算现在有很多很多的原因使我不喜欢或不愿意，可是这个不愿意远远比我以后到外求助来的藐小多了。

真是谢谢我的导师，让我明白了一个道理。有很多事虽然我们不愿意不喜欢做，可是如果你是一位成熟的人，你不应该以喜不喜欢来判断要做的事，而是以该不该来判断。

小孩只做自己喜欢做的事，成人会做自己该做的事~！这句话太对了~！